tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5210353425616744235.post8064239388178597105..comments2023-04-13T02:42:31.179-07:00Comments on And other ideas and thoughts ....: Are you going to get a divorce?Campbellhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13600505149020853906noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5210353425616744235.post-5336468287979884512010-01-12T19:03:47.634-08:002010-01-12T19:03:47.634-08:00Yeah Lori, we just have to ask them or let them sp...Yeah Lori, we just have to ask them or let them speak and actually hear them to know what they're afraid of. <br /><br />I understand what you're saying about sort of wishing your daughter was more familiar with loss but I honestly don't think it makes one damn bit of difference. It hurts like hell no matter when, you know? Yeah, I know you know.Campbellhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13600505149020853906noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5210353425616744235.post-1300137031393771652010-01-12T07:10:56.574-08:002010-01-12T07:10:56.574-08:00Children are interesting in their ability to conne...Children are interesting in their ability to connect events. Most adults, oddly, do not do this. When my parents got divorced, I was not worried about who would care for us, I knew my father would. What I worried about is what if they separated me from my sister (she is two years younger than I and we were very close). <br /><br />I wish, in an odd way, that my daughter had to live through some of this at an early age, because now she has to face finding family, then losing a dad. It is hard on her at 31.Lorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05815710859859029536noreply@blogger.com